June 3rd, 2013 - 03:36 PM
How do you know you are with a LOVE Avoider?
This type of person will charm the pants off you and disconnect from you emotionally, physically, intimately - as fast as they can and as soon as they get their feeling of "BEING NEEDED" met. Then come back into your life, when they need to have the feeling of "BEING NEEDED" filled. Back and forth this will be the pattern. ALSO, they may maintain any number of other love relationships, business relationships, or friend relationships outside of your own intimate relationship. They may lie to you. They may continue to charm you - so you stay hooked with them. Forget intimacy because they are not into you. They are only into their addiction of the feeling of "BEING NEEDED."
I was married to a Love Avoider for 25 years. If you have any questions, please feel free to contact me.
www.katkemm.com Kat Kemm is the author of How to Feel And Understand Love Attraction