Shirley - I was well aware that would require double shipping. It's just the only way you'll have a personal touch if you want it. I should add I've always shipped items to myself first even when they were gifts. It feels weird to me personally to drop-ship a present unless the shipping cost is huge. My Mom has gotten plenty of directly-shipped gifts from friends over the years with no idea who sent them, so I know it's one of my quirks to dislike it and not a general problem. LOL
Otherwise, Melissa has the best suggestion, mail it directly and tell her a surprise is coming. :-)
PS It's worth putting in the suggestion box again (I know it's been asked before) to allow a gift note to be sent with orders. Not just for our benefit but if customers want to order a gift and send it directly, the option to include a brief note would be helpful.