I certainly understand your reluctance to watch the video, Beth, as you've obviously had some very personal experiences with this. My sincere condolences regarding your husband. I had something happen to me yesterday, which has never happened before. It was a good thing, really. I went and had my yearly physical (clean bill of health - Yay), and the nurse practitioner, while I was undressed, checked me over for signs of skin cancer. She has never done this to me before, and when I mentioned that fact, she told me that she has seen so many cases of skin cancer, in recent years, that she now makes it part of the routine during a physical. I thought to myself "what a wonderful thing to do". And I thanked her for that.