facing each other, facing the facts, facing reality, facing the future facing the fact that this world is not the end. How many people did I see today that, it seemed to me, were not thinking about their true destination, the next world? How many seconds, minutes hours have I been wasting thinking about results that are just a short way down the line, not the end result of all that happens? the next world. How many days, weeks, months, years have I wasted with these kinds of...thoughts. if we think about the true outcome and goal it puts everything in the proper perspective-- everything. And all the things that were confused, painful, difficult, etc. all these constrictions become small in light of the larger true picture. Hashem helps.